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When You Ask He Says, 'I Don't Want To Talk About It'

If you think your BF is mad at you, the first thing you should do is ask him if he is - even if he decides not to be honest, his response will probably still be telling. If a guy says, "I don't want to talk about it," that means that something is bugging him, but - you guessed it - he doesn't want to talk about it. This answer is frustrating, and can make you say things like, "What? What does that mean? Why can't you tell me? Let's talk about it." I totally get that. The thing is, sometimes people need time to process their anger and work through it on their own before they feel ready to discuss it with their partner. It's annoying, but give him time. He should eventually talk about it. If he refuses to never discuss it, that's an issue.